SkY-ForEveR-ReD

Friends

Recently quite alot of things happened around me..
Friends are not getting along well with one another..
Ended up quarreling with each other..
Sometimes one party might be at fault..
But I feel that if the other party did not agitate that party or what..
It might have ended in the way that no one wish to..

I tried to help them to patch things up..
Hope I did not make it worst instead..
If it really did, all I can do now is to say "Sorry" to the person..
I sincerely did not wish it will turn out worst..

Seriously I feel that other than family..
Friends are the next most important people in life..
True friends gave us support when we need it..
True friends comfort us when we're feeling down..
True friends are always there whenever we need them..
Whenever we go, we need friends, true friends..

I once been through this too..
I have always quarrel with this friend of mine when I was young..
Quarrel and quarrel and quarrel..
Till saying things like not talking to each other..
We lived in the same neighbourhood..
Definitely we will see each other almost everyday..
How can we not talk?
Hence, I decided to take the first step..
I went up to him..
"Ehh.. I'm sorry about the other day.. Are we still friends?"

Well, for those who know me and my friend..
Think you already know the end result..
He's my brother now!!
Brothers For LIFE!!

When friends are together..
There bounds to be quarrels every now and then..
But things will be alright after a few days..
Like the old sayings, "Let bygones be bygones"..
We will be friends again the next day..

Why do quarrels happened?
I feel that it is because one party is being agitated..
Then that agitation leads to the person's anger..
Thus making the person to thrash everything out on the other person..
That the other person could not control his or her emotions..
And hence burst into anger too..
Lastly, leading to quarrels or even worst case scenarios..

To prevent quarrels..
Controlling one's anger could be the most important factor..
As anger follows after a certain emotion..
For example: agitation; frustration..
Therefore, we need to curb these emotions..
Before letting them turns into anger..

When things gets very serious..
Time could be the key to everything..
Give the person some time to think about it..
Cool down and relax..

When one person decided to give in and take the first step..
A chance should be given..
For example, if my friend did not accept my giving in..
I think we might not had been the best of friends now..

Friend, if you are reading my post now..
I hope you will reconsider your decision..
I can understand how you feel..
You have been through some thing like this before..
Believe me, I had been through what you are going or have been through..

Perhaps you should know this..
Being a student studying in a foreign land is difficult..
Having been through a few years education in the his or her country..
A sudden change of a new study environment could be hard to adapt..
A lot of things have to start afresh..
Like making a new group of friends?

This is just like going from Primary school to Secondary school..
Things would have been totally different..
New environment, new people, new study style..

I'm not trying to say things like I'm trying to show off or act big here..
I just hope people who are so into this kind of problem..
Will rethink the situation after reading this post..

And friend (you know who you are),
After reading this post..
Really hope you will reconsider..
And if you don't agree or dislike with what I written in this post..
You can just tell me and I will straight away delete this post..
I do not wish to lose a friend like you..

Sky ended his words @ 1:24:00 AM